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Around 5 months ago, I realized there was a roadblock within my marriage. I would build trust, communication, and respect, then burn it to the ground just a few weeks later. I knew exactly why I was participating in a self-sabotage loop. I had cheated on my wife and continued to lie to her about it. It didn’t matter how many date nights I had, how many flowers I would buy, or how many “I love you” texts I would send. In the end, I would act accordingly as I saw myself. A lousy husband. I couldn’t take it anymore. The lies were eating me up inside and I knew I had to do something before my self-destruction would lead to a divorce. So I told my wife I would be seeking help for our marriage, not because it was bad(it was ok), but because I wanted it to be great. I knew my wife wasn’t the problem, it was me. I was a mess full of negative self-talk, disbelief, and resentment. So I let her know I wanted to work on some of my issues before inviting her to join. And so the quest began. I’ve worked with marriage counselors twice before, once in a past relationship, and the second in my current marriage, and in both circumstances, we experienced a false lift of happiness and resolution only to be back at square one a few months later. I knew I would have to do something different this time. I was no longer seeking counseling. I was seeking leadership from a man who had fallen down the same ditch of pain, shame, and regrets that I had, and found a way to crawl out of it. So I came up with a plan. I would call every Male counselor or therapist I could find on Google in my area and ask them 1 simple question. “Have you ever cheated on your wife?” You’d be surprised at the number of professionals who denied response and took offense to this question. I received several “that's a very personal question” and “no I haven't”. I must’ve called at least 15 different numbers before I came across “Life Coach” during my search. I had heard of life coaches before on tv shows, but always thought they were there to help people with low social skills or individuals with high anxiety, or those who can’t get their life together. But I thought “What do I have to lose? I’m not getting anywhere with these therapists”. So I gave him a call and left my information for a callback. 30 minutes later my phone starts ringing. I asked him the same question I asked everyone else I had called that day. Me: Have you ever cheated on your wife? Emmanuel: No I haven’t. I’d have to be crazy to cheat on my wife. Me: (on to the next) Emmanuel: But there was cheating in my past relationship. Me: 💡 I was sold. This is the transparency and trust which Emmanuel have me. Right from the beginning I saw honesty, trust, and a complete understanding of the issues I faced. But it didn’t stop there. He’ll also helped me develop the tools necessary to stand up and pursue the quality of life which deep down I knew I deserved. After just a few months of my wife and I working alongside Emmanuel, he got us to a place where we could communicate with full transparency to each other. I finally admitted to my wife my darkest secrets about our marriage. And I’m glad I did. Today we’re happier than ever. I express my love to her in a way I never knew I could. Her feminine side is starting to flow naturally now that I’ve allowed myself to be trusted by her. I’m finally able to make love to my wife and not just have intercourse. All of this was possible because of you Emmanuel. From the bottom of my heart, thank you brother.